You want to be in a relationship but every time you meet someone it doesn’t quite work out. I help motivate women to transform their relationship so they can attract the love they desire, feel more confident, and live their best life! Together, we’ll go through a process so that you get to experience relationships with depth, meaning, and true intimacy.

Be Intentional


We are the common denominator in all our relationships. Without understanding our unconscious patterns, we risk repeating our toxic relationship choices over and over again. It is time to open your heart to the kind of love you absolutely deserve.

I Will Help You Discover


You’re smart, successful, and an action taker. You want that forever relationship. The one that feels NATURAL and EASY. Just RIGHT.

But you are tired of dating emotionally unavailable types, casual hookups, people you have to rescue, or no one you can take seriously.

You’re beginning to doubt yourself… You think that you are not date-able. You are tired of being placed in the FRIEND zone.

Are you READY to experience an Enriching Loving Life changing experience? 

Are you feeling frustrated with your love life? 

Do you keep meeting men or women who are not looking for a committed relationship? 

Have you been on countless first dates that don’t lead anywhere?  

Do you keep getting ghosted?  

Are you wondering if the person you are seeing is actually interested in you?  

Do you wonder where all of the successful single men are? 

Leslie O’Hare helps you take the mystery out of finding and developing meaningful relationships. Leslie is the most trusted dating and relationship coach, Leslie works with clients who are looking to finally understand what is going wrong within their love life… and how to fix it.

Leslie has helped many single women transform their dating lives through her coaching techniques by focusing on sustainable change.  If a person who yearns to be in a relationship is single, they have developed ineffective habits that must be tweaked.  Leslie works in one-on-one, private and group sessions to give women all of the tools that they need in their journey from finding “the One” to building a long-term, successful relationship.

When it comes to Dating and Relationships in today’s world what has worked for women in the past is NOT working anymore…

The dating landscape is getting tougher and tougher.

Women dating and looking for love today often end up feeling used and taken advantage of by men for short term flings, sex and hook ups. But this is not a reflection on men as a whole – it is because many women are operating with a serious blind spot!

Leslie O'Hare's coaching style and her programs are direct, proactive and transformational in nature. Specifically designed for the modern woman who is hardworking, coachable, and ready for results, right now, not tomorrow.

 I can definitely help you. In fact, I am excited about helping you LevelUp your love life.

If you’re ready to invest in yourself, let me help YOU find lasting love by making Intentional Dating choices TODAY

"My husband and I have attended many of Leslie's seminars, she helped us work through the issues that we were having in our marriage. We are in a much better place as a couple--our communication is better, we spend more time together and we are so much more in love with each other.  Leslie challenges you to be the best version of yourself. She has a no non-sense approach. We might have ended up in divorce if we didn't work with Leslie.

-- Hillary O.

Let’s make a commitment today, from this point on…NO more settling, No more brokenness, NO more frustration, No more tears and No more pain and heartache.

"I was in a marriage for 15 years and coming out of that was tough. When I was finally able to date I didn’t know where to start, Leslie made me feel secure about starting over, she helped me feel safe to talk abut my fears and past.”

-- Rachel V.

"She is one of the most genuine leaders I have ever encountered. She’s an expert in building authentic relationships based on honesty and transparency. She has definitely earned my trust. I recommend Leslie to companies seeking a coach who believes in building strong teams by equipping them with the tools to build strong relationships and excel as individuals and as a department."
– Alan Stein, PricewaterhouseCoopers

Are You Waiting To Be Chosen?

My Areas of Expertise

"I've always been one of those people who has a lot of friends, and male friends who I spend time with but never dated. In just a two-hour dating workshop, Leslie really helped me to understand things, not just about men and dating, but about myself, so that I could develop my own skills and become a more interesting, engaging and  attractive person. What's great about Leslie isn't just that she's a great coach, she has real honest valuable knowledge. Her coaching addresses really important things like interaction, conversation and connection. 

During the seminar, I realize that there's nothing to be intimidated about when it comes to dating.

That's why that one seminar was really empowering. Now, as opposed to a couple months ago, I've been going on dates, and having a much better time. It's worth your while to work with Leslie."
– Sandy M.

You'll find out what limiting beliefs are keeping you stuck in the cycle of singleness.

Leslie O'Hare

"Leslie's message was interesting, informative, and helpful and relevant to our participants.  She is an effective and efficient presenter -- organized, prepared, knowledgeable and confident of her information and her presentation.  She will certainly be invited back!" 
– Tom Ziglar, CEO, Ziglar, Inc.

"Leslie O’Hare communicates with passion and articulation. She invokes and instills value through her words, and through the promises of life from God that are available to those who are ready to receive all that God has to offer them as His children."
– Allen A.M.E. Church, Women's Ministry

"Leslie really is the real deal, her coaching literally changed my way of thinking and in essence my whole life, I am now in a healthy and happy relationship with someone who respects me and loves me for who I am." 
– Ashley W.

I am Leslie O'Hare. I’m a Certified Dating and Relationship Coach, TV Personality, TEDx Speaker and Author.

You can think of me as your personal trainer whose here to guide you through the path of finding everlasting authentic love.

I'm delighted and grateful that you decided to visit my site. I’ve helped countless singles (just like YOU).

I challenge and encourage my clients to rise above their self-imposed limitations. In an effort to help clients take a leap forward in order to make a change in their life, I have created a method that is both belief and behavior based. Which addresses the skill set verses mindset. I approach the obstacles from “inside out” which entails emotional release work, and combines it with practical “outside in” strategies that are aligned with my clients’ value system.

Each individual has different aspirations and faces different challenges. Some clients require more structure, some seek more guidance, and some simply need more accountability.  A key focus of my work is to adapt my approach to meet the needs of my clients individually.

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"Leslie worked with our team to design and deliver a highly impactful, customized workshop that was focused around improving Relationship building skills. Leslie is smart, engaging and always finds a way to make sure that everyone wins. She is dedicated to making a positive impact on her community, her company and her faith. I give Leslie the highest of recommendations!"
– Terry Howard, Diversity & Inclusion Director, Texas Instruments

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“I feel confident dating for the first time in my life. Leslie made me feel safe to talk about my fears and past. I now, know who I am and I am ready to find real lasting love."

-- Erin T.